
Five years ago, James Ruddick was fresh out of a 15-year relationship, drowning in £18,000 worth of debt and had just £2.67 in his bank account.
His ex moved out and left a note saying things were over, as well as leaving James to deal with her secret credit card loans.
As the mechanic stood in his three-bed house in Carlisle, which he could no longer afford on his own, he knew something had to change.
‘My home was really nice, but I thought, why am I paying all of this to be in a three-bed house with just a dog and not have any money left at the end of the month,’ James said.
His monthly bills were £1,200 a month, leaving him with little money to get by.
‘I went to a local council and told them I was really struggling,’ he added. ‘I explained that I was likely going to have to sell my house and asked about housing support – but they couldn’t help.
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‘I had no doctor because I couldn’t find one, no dentist either and I started questioning what exactly I was paying into the system for. I was working hard but couldn’t even afford a holiday.
‘It was all getting too much – just seeing money coming in and out all the time with nothing to show for it.’
Determined not to spend all his income on bills and ‘sit at home alone’, James ‘took the plunge’, putting his house on the market, selling all his belongings and moving into a van.
![Story from Jam Press (Frugal Van Life) Pictured: The van James Ruddick lives in and travels with across the UK. 'I sold my three-bed after painful break-up and moved into a VAN to live off-grid ? now I spend just ?250 on bills and love the simple life' A man has revealed how he sold his three-bed house after a painful break-up to move into a van ? now spending just ?250 a month on bills while travelling around Europe. When James Ruddick split with his other half, he had just ?2.67 in his bank account and was ?18,000 in debt. Looking around his three-bed house, where he had lived with his partner of 15 years, he decided it was time for a change. The Brit was also fed up with the UK?s cost of living crisis ? which saw him constantly paying bills and never having anything left over to enjoy his life. So he put his house on the market, sold all his belongings and moved into a van. ?I had a lovely three-bed house,? the 50-year-old from Carlisle told What's The Jam. ?It really was nice, but I thought, why am I paying all of this to be in a three-bed house with just a dog and not have any money left at the end of the month? ?About five years ago, a relationship ended that had lasted almost 15 years. ? That left me with ?2.67 in the bank and ?18,000 worth of debt. ?The house had to be sold, which paid off almost all of the debt, but not all of it. ?I bought several houses, renovated them and sold them but the work I was doing at the time went completely wrong. ?The whole thing fell apart. ?It was a combination of things that made me stop and reassess everything I was doing. ?All my wages were gone by the end of each month. ?I had a van for years that my ex and I used to go away [on long weekends]. ?It was a much simpler way of living and I found peace in that. ?So, I sold the house and took the plunge. ?I sold everything I had apart from a few personal items and set off on a journey in the van.? James purchased a 2008 Mercedes Vario for ?25,000 in late 2024. The vehicle was ready to move into, but James made later upgrades like adding more solar panels and installing a fridge-freezer. The 50-year-old has since immersed himself into nomadic life with his Labrador, Bruce. He is fully off-grid except for having a mobile phone with limited internet. The pair started their adventure across Wales and the south of England before James began volunteering at music festivals. The unpaid gigs allowed him to park up for free while enjoying meal vouchers and sometimes even free drinks. When the cold weather hit, he spotted an advert for a house and pet sitter in Portugal and jumped at the opportunity. From there, he made his way down the Spanish coastline to Tarifa, then up the coast to Valencia and Benidorm. James said: ?Bruce and I are completely off-grid, completely off the system, apart from a mobile phone with limited internet. ?You do feel like you?re on your own but the peace and freedom are amazing. ?I?m much happier now. ?Before selling, I went to a local council and told them I was really struggling. ?I explained that I was likely going to have to sell my house and asked about housing support ? but they couldn?t help. ?I had no doctor because I couldn?t find one, no dentist either and I started questioning what exactly I was paying into the system for. ?I was working hard but couldn?t even afford a holiday. ?It was all getting too much ? just seeing money coming in and out all the time with nothing to show for it. ?Since moving into my van, I?ve never looked back. ?To be able to travel at your own pace, in your own home, park wherever you like and enjoy better weather ? it is an incredible experience. ?It?s something I?ve wanted to do for a long, long time.? Incredibly, despite having no steady income, James says he manages to live on just ?250 a month. Previously, as a homeowner, his monthly bills were ?1,200 a month. The van lifer manages to live frugally by keeping food costs to a minimum ? only paying for road tax, MOT, insurance and a cheap phone plan. Now back in the UK, James says he has more festival work lined up until August. After that, he?s considering an adventure around Italy. He added: ?I?m incredibly lucky and fortunate to be able to do this. ?I wasn?t forced into it ? I could have rented a very small place and continued working a 9 to 5 job. ?But to me, that was just existing. ?I didn?t want restrictions. ?I didn?t want to just pay bills and sit at home alone. ?It doesn?t matter how much money you have ? when you?re sitting around a campfire having dinner, everyone is equal. ?You wake up and think, should we stay another day, drive somewhere new or find a different beach? ?I?m at peace now ? that?s the best way to describe it. ?I should have done this years ago.? ENDS](https://giewahyudi.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/SEI_246261081-994a.jpg)
He was inspired by the van that he’d shared with his ex-partner – they’d used it to travel on long weekends.
‘[Van life] was a much simpler way of living and I found peace in that, so I sold everything I had apart from a few personal items and set off on a journey in a van,’ he said.
James purchased a 2008 Mercedes Vario for £25,000 in late 2024, which was ready to move into, but the 50-year-old made upgrades like solar panels and a fridge freezer.
He now lives fully off-grid except for a mobile phone with limited internet and the company of his Labrador, Bruce.
The pair started their adventure across Wales and the south of England before James began volunteering at music festivals.
The unpaid gigs allowed him to park up for free while enjoying meal vouchers and sometimes even free drinks.
![Story from Jam Press (Frugal Van Life) Pictured: James' Labrador, Bruce. 'I sold my three-bed after painful break-up and moved into a VAN to live off-grid ? now I spend just ?250 on bills and love the simple life' A man has revealed how he sold his three-bed house after a painful break-up to move into a van ? now spending just ?250 a month on bills while travelling around Europe. When James Ruddick split with his other half, he had just ?2.67 in his bank account and was ?18,000 in debt. Looking around his three-bed house, where he had lived with his partner of 15 years, he decided it was time for a change. The Brit was also fed up with the UK?s cost of living crisis ? which saw him constantly paying bills and never having anything left over to enjoy his life. So he put his house on the market, sold all his belongings and moved into a van. ?I had a lovely three-bed house,? the 50-year-old from Carlisle told What's The Jam. ?It really was nice, but I thought, why am I paying all of this to be in a three-bed house with just a dog and not have any money left at the end of the month? ?About five years ago, a relationship ended that had lasted almost 15 years. ? That left me with ?2.67 in the bank and ?18,000 worth of debt. ?The house had to be sold, which paid off almost all of the debt, but not all of it. ?I bought several houses, renovated them and sold them but the work I was doing at the time went completely wrong. ?The whole thing fell apart. ?It was a combination of things that made me stop and reassess everything I was doing. ?All my wages were gone by the end of each month. ?I had a van for years that my ex and I used to go away [on long weekends]. ?It was a much simpler way of living and I found peace in that. ?So, I sold the house and took the plunge. ?I sold everything I had apart from a few personal items and set off on a journey in the van.? James purchased a 2008 Mercedes Vario for ?25,000 in late 2024. The vehicle was ready to move into, but James made later upgrades like adding more solar panels and installing a fridge-freezer. The 50-year-old has since immersed himself into nomadic life with his Labrador, Bruce. He is fully off-grid except for having a mobile phone with limited internet. The pair started their adventure across Wales and the south of England before James began volunteering at music festivals. The unpaid gigs allowed him to park up for free while enjoying meal vouchers and sometimes even free drinks. When the cold weather hit, he spotted an advert for a house and pet sitter in Portugal and jumped at the opportunity. From there, he made his way down the Spanish coastline to Tarifa, then up the coast to Valencia and Benidorm. James said: ?Bruce and I are completely off-grid, completely off the system, apart from a mobile phone with limited internet. ?You do feel like you?re on your own but the peace and freedom are amazing. ?I?m much happier now. ?Before selling, I went to a local council and told them I was really struggling. ?I explained that I was likely going to have to sell my house and asked about housing support ? but they couldn?t help. ?I had no doctor because I couldn?t find one, no dentist either and I started questioning what exactly I was paying into the system for. ?I was working hard but couldn?t even afford a holiday. ?It was all getting too much ? just seeing money coming in and out all the time with nothing to show for it. ?Since moving into my van, I?ve never looked back. ?To be able to travel at your own pace, in your own home, park wherever you like and enjoy better weather ? it is an incredible experience. ?It?s something I?ve wanted to do for a long, long time.? Incredibly, despite having no steady income, James says he manages to live on just ?250 a month. Previously, as a homeowner, his monthly bills were ?1,200 a month. The van lifer manages to live frugally by keeping food costs to a minimum ? only paying for road tax, MOT, insurance and a cheap phone plan. Now back in the UK, James says he has more festival work lined up until August. After that, he?s considering an adventure around Italy. He added: ?I?m incredibly lucky and fortunate to be able to do this. ?I wasn?t forced into it ? I could have rented a very small place and continued working a 9 to 5 job. ?But to me, that was just existing. ?I didn?t want restrictions. ?I didn?t want to just pay bills and sit at home alone. ?It doesn?t matter how much money you have ? when you?re sitting around a campfire having dinner, everyone is equal. ?You wake up and think, should we stay another day, drive somewhere new or find a different beach? ?I?m at peace now ? that?s the best way to describe it. ?I should have done this years ago.? ENDS](https://giewahyudi.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/SEI_246260798-f0a8-e1744013625725.jpg)
When the cold weather hit, he spotted an advert for a house and pet sitter in Portugal and jumped at the opportunity.
From there, he made his way down the Spanish coastline to Tarifa, then up the coast to Valencia and Benidorm.
James said: ‘You do feel like you’re on your own but the peace and freedom are amazing. I’m much happier now.
‘Since moving into my van, I’ve never looked back. To be able to travel at your own pace, in your own home, park wherever you like and enjoy better weather – it is an incredible experience.
‘It’s something I’ve wanted to do for a long, long time.’
Incredibly, despite having no steady income, James says he manages to live on just £250 a month which he takes from his savings – although this isn’t a permanent solution.
The van lifer manages to live frugally by keeping food costs to a minimum – only paying for road tax, MOT, insurance and a cheap phone plan.
![Story from Jam Press (Frugal Van Life) Pictured: The inside of the van they live in. 'I sold my three-bed after painful break-up and moved into a VAN to live off-grid ? now I spend just ?250 on bills and love the simple life' A man has revealed how he sold his three-bed house after a painful break-up to move into a van ? now spending just ?250 a month on bills while travelling around Europe. When James Ruddick split with his other half, he had just ?2.67 in his bank account and was ?18,000 in debt. Looking around his three-bed house, where he had lived with his partner of 15 years, he decided it was time for a change. The Brit was also fed up with the UK?s cost of living crisis ? which saw him constantly paying bills and never having anything left over to enjoy his life. So he put his house on the market, sold all his belongings and moved into a van. ?I had a lovely three-bed house,? the 50-year-old from Carlisle told What's The Jam. ?It really was nice, but I thought, why am I paying all of this to be in a three-bed house with just a dog and not have any money left at the end of the month? ?About five years ago, a relationship ended that had lasted almost 15 years. ? That left me with ?2.67 in the bank and ?18,000 worth of debt. ?The house had to be sold, which paid off almost all of the debt, but not all of it. ?I bought several houses, renovated them and sold them but the work I was doing at the time went completely wrong. ?The whole thing fell apart. ?It was a combination of things that made me stop and reassess everything I was doing. ?All my wages were gone by the end of each month. ?I had a van for years that my ex and I used to go away [on long weekends]. ?It was a much simpler way of living and I found peace in that. ?So, I sold the house and took the plunge. ?I sold everything I had apart from a few personal items and set off on a journey in the van.? James purchased a 2008 Mercedes Vario for ?25,000 in late 2024. The vehicle was ready to move into, but James made later upgrades like adding more solar panels and installing a fridge-freezer. The 50-year-old has since immersed himself into nomadic life with his Labrador, Bruce. He is fully off-grid except for having a mobile phone with limited internet. The pair started their adventure across Wales and the south of England before James began volunteering at music festivals. The unpaid gigs allowed him to park up for free while enjoying meal vouchers and sometimes even free drinks. When the cold weather hit, he spotted an advert for a house and pet sitter in Portugal and jumped at the opportunity. From there, he made his way down the Spanish coastline to Tarifa, then up the coast to Valencia and Benidorm. James said: ?Bruce and I are completely off-grid, completely off the system, apart from a mobile phone with limited internet. ?You do feel like you?re on your own but the peace and freedom are amazing. ?I?m much happier now. ?Before selling, I went to a local council and told them I was really struggling. ?I explained that I was likely going to have to sell my house and asked about housing support ? but they couldn?t help. ?I had no doctor because I couldn?t find one, no dentist either and I started questioning what exactly I was paying into the system for. ?I was working hard but couldn?t even afford a holiday. ?It was all getting too much ? just seeing money coming in and out all the time with nothing to show for it. ?Since moving into my van, I?ve never looked back. ?To be able to travel at your own pace, in your own home, park wherever you like and enjoy better weather ? it is an incredible experience. ?It?s something I?ve wanted to do for a long, long time.? Incredibly, despite having no steady income, James says he manages to live on just ?250 a month. Previously, as a homeowner, his monthly bills were ?1,200 a month. The van lifer manages to live frugally by keeping food costs to a minimum ? only paying for road tax, MOT, insurance and a cheap phone plan. Now back in the UK, James says he has more festival work lined up until August. After that, he?s considering an adventure around Italy. He added: ?I?m incredibly lucky and fortunate to be able to do this. ?I wasn?t forced into it ? I could have rented a very small place and continued working a 9 to 5 job. ?But to me, that was just existing. ?I didn?t want restrictions. ?I didn?t want to just pay bills and sit at home alone. ?It doesn?t matter how much money you have ? when you?re sitting around a campfire having dinner, everyone is equal. ?You wake up and think, should we stay another day, drive somewhere new or find a different beach? ?I?m at peace now ? that?s the best way to describe it. ?I should have done this years ago.? ENDS](https://giewahyudi.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/04/SEI_246260964-4a06-e1744013713512.jpg)
Now back in the UK, James says he has more festival work lined up until August. After that, he’s considering an adventure around Italy.
He added: ‘I’m incredibly lucky and fortunate to be able to do this. I wasn’t forced into it – I could have rented a very small place and continued working a nine to five job.
‘But to me, that was just existing. I didn’t want restrictions. It doesn’t matter how much money you have – when you’re sitting around a campfire having dinner, everyone is equal.
‘You wake up and think, should we stay another day, drive somewhere new or find a different beach?
‘I’m at peace now – that’s the best way to describe it.’
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